I just read an interesting article by Marc Rudov, and it's one that I think every man needs to take to heart. I know, both by personal experience and through observation, that women are very much just as horny, if not more so, as men.
No really, it's true.
I've worked in sex shops (ever notice how many more dildos and vibrators there are than pocket pussies and molded asses? And lots of them aren't cheap either! Some of those vibrators were over a hundred dollars for crying out loud).
Anyway, Marc basically made the point that women are using sex as a method of control over men...or rather the promise of sex. What he wants men to understand is if they stopped doing the bullshit for a little while, women would get so horny they'd start to pursue rather than manipulate.
And mutual pursuit is far healthier than a relationship founded on manipulation and denial in my books.
MGTOW, the Ghost Nation, those guys are the extreme of this approach. The rest of us can still pursue women all we want (obviously), but please for God's sake stop buying women stuff. ESPECIALLY gifts to impress or apologize. That behaviour really does beg for manipulation, and more importantly...YOU DON'T HAVE TO.
That's right. You don't have to apologize when you know you're right. She doesn't either, even if she's wrong, but what does that say about her character?
It's time we started judging women's behaviour, and calling them on their shit. It's time we stopped playing the game their way. If enough of us wake up, it'll be over before you know it.