One of the very first things a young boy learns, is that his pain, suffering, confusion, fear...etc ad nauseum....is by far less important than damned near anyone else. Less important than 'Mom's needs', less important than 'sister's needs', even less important than 'random woman on the street's needs'.
From the time we are old enough to understand language, young boys are taught it is 'never OK to hit a girl', while girls are applauded for truly nasty behaviour - which for them, apparently, is 'empowering'. Young boys are repeatedly told, by nearly every 'authority figure' they come in contact with, that men (especially the white ones) are responsible for all the evil in the world, and have deliberately hurt women and girls for centuries.
And young boys are indoctrinated to accept their lowered status in society...to 'make up for past injustices'.
Every man has similar experiences as a child. Every man is aware, to at least some extent, that he is forbidden to complain about...or even note...said double standards. After all, Real Men(tm) don't 'whine'.
Voltaire (by all accounts a pretty smart and influential dude) put it this way: "To learn who rules over you, simply find out who you are not allowed to criticize."
Sound logic, if you ask me...